Are you always up on your toes thinking that you've got to please this perfect guy that you're dating? If he's everyone's idea of a perfect man, this shouldn't make you feel pressured. After all, this is just another man who's out to love yet another woman!
Everybody thinks he's perfect but he's not.
And you should know that by now - he's got his faults and flaws, too. But what would make your relationship work is if you also learn to accept that he's also vulnerable just like every man. Love all of his charming qualities but in order to relax your nerves, keep telling yourself that he's the man that you love, not a god who came down from heaven.
Intimidation will only make you feel pressured.
Is it his talents or his handsomeness that makes him seem godly? If so, just be appreciative of these qualities. Don't focus too much on these that you end up closing your eyes to your own strength.
Prove that he has one heck of a woman!
What would boost your confidence in his presence is the thought that you're his perfect match - none else! Contribute emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually in your relationship. This man will surely admire you once he realizes how great you truly are.
Admire, don't worship.
He isn't a god so stop treating him like one. Don't lay down the carpet as he walks by. Though he's special, this guy is yet another man so just admire his best qualities and make him feel special. Revering the very ground that he walks in would make you look like a doormat.
Stop behaving like a slave.
So what if he's the handsomest boyfriend you've ever had? This guy might get used to ordering you about that he would find it hard to stop. Show him that you want to please him but only to a certain extent. Learn to say no when it's needed.
Make him think that you're perfect, too.
He's not the only one who seems perfect, believe that you are, too! Show him your accomplishments and he'll surely be proud to be your boyfriend. Display your unique talents and he is sure to think highly of you.
Respect every inch of him.
Don't just adore his endearing qualities, prove to him that you can show respect at all times. Don't give in to your hatred during heated arguments. Never yell nor demean him. Esteem him highly and he'd surely give this same respect in return.
Everybody thinks he's perfect but he's not.
And you should know that by now - he's got his faults and flaws, too. But what would make your relationship work is if you also learn to accept that he's also vulnerable just like every man. Love all of his charming qualities but in order to relax your nerves, keep telling yourself that he's the man that you love, not a god who came down from heaven.
Intimidation will only make you feel pressured.
Is it his talents or his handsomeness that makes him seem godly? If so, just be appreciative of these qualities. Don't focus too much on these that you end up closing your eyes to your own strength.
Prove that he has one heck of a woman!
What would boost your confidence in his presence is the thought that you're his perfect match - none else! Contribute emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually in your relationship. This man will surely admire you once he realizes how great you truly are.
Admire, don't worship.
He isn't a god so stop treating him like one. Don't lay down the carpet as he walks by. Though he's special, this guy is yet another man so just admire his best qualities and make him feel special. Revering the very ground that he walks in would make you look like a doormat.
Stop behaving like a slave.
So what if he's the handsomest boyfriend you've ever had? This guy might get used to ordering you about that he would find it hard to stop. Show him that you want to please him but only to a certain extent. Learn to say no when it's needed.
Make him think that you're perfect, too.
He's not the only one who seems perfect, believe that you are, too! Show him your accomplishments and he'll surely be proud to be your boyfriend. Display your unique talents and he is sure to think highly of you.
Respect every inch of him.
Don't just adore his endearing qualities, prove to him that you can show respect at all times. Don't give in to your hatred during heated arguments. Never yell nor demean him. Esteem him highly and he'd surely give this same respect in return.
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