One of the more common situations that ends up being very frustrating for a guy is when he really likes a woman as more than a friend, and all she thinks of him is being a friend or even like a brother. What can you do when that beautiful woman, the one you want to be with more than anyone else just sees you as being a friend and nothing more? Do you have to just accept this as the way it has to be or is there something that you can do to make her feel like she loves You as well?
Here's some love advice for men on how to turn a friend into a lover:
1. She's never going to want to be more than friends as long as you continue to do friend like things with her.
Are you the guy she calls on when she needs a favor or has problems with another guy? If you are doing any of the kinds of things that a really good friend would do, then it's going to be almost impossible to change the way that she feels about you. You have to make a point of trying not to be a friend to her, and coming across as more of a guy who has real interest in her.
2. You are going to have to make some changes to your appearance and your attitude around her.
Changing the way that someone sees you is not always the easiest thing to do, but you can start by making a change in the attitude that you have around her AND your appearance. Surprise her and change your look a little and you just might be able to change the way that she sees you. The problem with being in the friend zone is that her mind already links you to friendship. You need to break that link and create a new one, and changing your appearance a little and your attitude can be a good start.
3. You are going to have to finally face the risk that she will reject you.
This is the reason why most guys stay in the friend zone. They don't want to get rejected by her. They would rather live in quiet desperation, always hoping that she will one day just see that they are in love with her, and it never happens. At some point, you are really going to have to deal with the possibility that she may end up rejecting you.
Here's some love advice for men on how to turn a friend into a lover:
1. She's never going to want to be more than friends as long as you continue to do friend like things with her.
Are you the guy she calls on when she needs a favor or has problems with another guy? If you are doing any of the kinds of things that a really good friend would do, then it's going to be almost impossible to change the way that she feels about you. You have to make a point of trying not to be a friend to her, and coming across as more of a guy who has real interest in her.
2. You are going to have to make some changes to your appearance and your attitude around her.
Changing the way that someone sees you is not always the easiest thing to do, but you can start by making a change in the attitude that you have around her AND your appearance. Surprise her and change your look a little and you just might be able to change the way that she sees you. The problem with being in the friend zone is that her mind already links you to friendship. You need to break that link and create a new one, and changing your appearance a little and your attitude can be a good start.
3. You are going to have to finally face the risk that she will reject you.
This is the reason why most guys stay in the friend zone. They don't want to get rejected by her. They would rather live in quiet desperation, always hoping that she will one day just see that they are in love with her, and it never happens. At some point, you are really going to have to deal with the possibility that she may end up rejecting you.
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