Does he love me? When you ask yourself this question, it only means one thing. You've gotten to a point in your relationship that you're certain the guy you like likes you back. But you're not sure if his feelings for you have deepened into love. Hopefully, the tips below can help you find out the real state of your relationship.
Does he love me if he wants us to live together?
Not always, but it's a good start. Commitment is a big thing for guys and they don't give up their privacy so easily. If your partner has asked you to live with him, then that's a very strong sign his feelings has gone beyond mere liking. It may not be at the same level as your feelings right now but be patient and it could get there.
Does he love me if he chooses to be with me over his friends?
Most likely! Never underestimate the bond between male friends. It goes very deep even if they don't seem terribly affectionate with each other. While it's common for a female to drop a girl's night out for a chance to be with her guy, it's not the same with boys. A guy's only going to do that when he really cares about a girl, and in this case that's you.
Does he love me if he remembers important dates?
Most likely! Guys are notorious for being forgetful about a girlfriend's birthday or their anniversary. But in many cases, it's really more of a subconscious desire not to think about those dates because it makes everything about the relationship more serious. And sometimes they're not just ready for that yet.
When a guy does go out of his way to commemorate the event - such as preparing a surprise candlelit dinner to celebrate your first year together - then that means he sees your relationship in a more serious and permanent level. It may not be what you've hoped for, but at least you're getting there. What matters is that your relationship is progressing.
Does he love me if he talks about the future with you in it?
Most likely! Why else would he involve you in his plans for the future if he can't envision himself spending the rest of his life with you? Listen closely to what he talks about the future. You'll be able to glean more clues about his feelings with the way he speaks of your future together. Has he mentioned anything about kids?
A Warning
In the end, of course, there's no better way to know the truth than by asking yourself. Instead of asking does he love me, go to your partner and ask him, 'do you love me?' Sometimes, it's the risk that you have to take. Just remember, however, that asking is different from nagging or forcing your partner to commit when he's not ready yet. It doesn't mean he won't ever be able to return your feelings. It only means he's not there yet and if you force his hand too early, this could backfire on you.
Does he love me if he wants us to live together?
Not always, but it's a good start. Commitment is a big thing for guys and they don't give up their privacy so easily. If your partner has asked you to live with him, then that's a very strong sign his feelings has gone beyond mere liking. It may not be at the same level as your feelings right now but be patient and it could get there.
Does he love me if he chooses to be with me over his friends?
Most likely! Never underestimate the bond between male friends. It goes very deep even if they don't seem terribly affectionate with each other. While it's common for a female to drop a girl's night out for a chance to be with her guy, it's not the same with boys. A guy's only going to do that when he really cares about a girl, and in this case that's you.
Does he love me if he remembers important dates?
Most likely! Guys are notorious for being forgetful about a girlfriend's birthday or their anniversary. But in many cases, it's really more of a subconscious desire not to think about those dates because it makes everything about the relationship more serious. And sometimes they're not just ready for that yet.
When a guy does go out of his way to commemorate the event - such as preparing a surprise candlelit dinner to celebrate your first year together - then that means he sees your relationship in a more serious and permanent level. It may not be what you've hoped for, but at least you're getting there. What matters is that your relationship is progressing.
Does he love me if he talks about the future with you in it?
Most likely! Why else would he involve you in his plans for the future if he can't envision himself spending the rest of his life with you? Listen closely to what he talks about the future. You'll be able to glean more clues about his feelings with the way he speaks of your future together. Has he mentioned anything about kids?
A Warning
In the end, of course, there's no better way to know the truth than by asking yourself. Instead of asking does he love me, go to your partner and ask him, 'do you love me?' Sometimes, it's the risk that you have to take. Just remember, however, that asking is different from nagging or forcing your partner to commit when he's not ready yet. It doesn't mean he won't ever be able to return your feelings. It only means he's not there yet and if you force his hand too early, this could backfire on you.
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