Are you currently seeing a guy who you slept with during your first date? Usually, having sex on the very first night that you go out, often isn't a good way to start a relationship. It wouldn't be surprising if it crossed your mind that his intention is just to have sex with you. On the other hand, there are some unions that have weathered the test of time even if they started with lust.
Here are the tell-tale signs of a guy who's just in it for free sex:
When you tell him you love him, he doesn't respond at all
If he's really into you he would reply with some form of "I love you, too" instead of just going back to cuddling you. If you can't even here these three important words, then he's not worth your time.
When you talk on the phone, majority of your topics revolve around sex
If you've noticed that he can't talk about anything else except your bedroom encounters, then start worrying. You should be able to engage in topics such as his or your interests and many other subjects other than sex.
When he asks you for sex and you say no, his mood suddenly changes
A good man should be able to take a refusal every now and then. After you've told him there will be no sex today, he should stop asking for it over and over. If he remains adamant and gets mad at you, then he's definitely not someone that you should have for keeps.
He hangs out with you only in a place where both of you can have sex
You should be able to go out in a world where the two of you can engage in activities and socialization. You should steer clear of motels if you want to find out if he's more than just a sex partner.
If you're alone in the house, he goes there and asks for sex
At times when you're alone in the house, he comes to you without any intent of having a good conversation. If he gets down to kissing or hugging you directly without even bothering to ask how your day went, then it only means that he's just there to have his fix for the day.
He touches you inappropriately even when you're in public
When you're with his friends he should introduce you as his girlfriend. You should be able to feel some amount of respect from them. If you don't, then maybe that has something to do with your man. Your man should stop touching you naughtily in front of other people. There's always a proper venue for sex and the streets aren't one of them!
You have caught him cheating with another woman
If you find out that he does the same thing with other girls, then it's time to wake up and accept that he's just in it for free sex - nothing more.
Here are the tell-tale signs of a guy who's just in it for free sex:
When you tell him you love him, he doesn't respond at all
If he's really into you he would reply with some form of "I love you, too" instead of just going back to cuddling you. If you can't even here these three important words, then he's not worth your time.
When you talk on the phone, majority of your topics revolve around sex
If you've noticed that he can't talk about anything else except your bedroom encounters, then start worrying. You should be able to engage in topics such as his or your interests and many other subjects other than sex.
When he asks you for sex and you say no, his mood suddenly changes
A good man should be able to take a refusal every now and then. After you've told him there will be no sex today, he should stop asking for it over and over. If he remains adamant and gets mad at you, then he's definitely not someone that you should have for keeps.
He hangs out with you only in a place where both of you can have sex
You should be able to go out in a world where the two of you can engage in activities and socialization. You should steer clear of motels if you want to find out if he's more than just a sex partner.
If you're alone in the house, he goes there and asks for sex
At times when you're alone in the house, he comes to you without any intent of having a good conversation. If he gets down to kissing or hugging you directly without even bothering to ask how your day went, then it only means that he's just there to have his fix for the day.
He touches you inappropriately even when you're in public
When you're with his friends he should introduce you as his girlfriend. You should be able to feel some amount of respect from them. If you don't, then maybe that has something to do with your man. Your man should stop touching you naughtily in front of other people. There's always a proper venue for sex and the streets aren't one of them!
You have caught him cheating with another woman
If you find out that he does the same thing with other girls, then it's time to wake up and accept that he's just in it for free sex - nothing more.
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